The Real Smell of Rain Drops

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Pasted from my email: - please take note that it does not applies to all keke.. maybe for your reference only =)

>11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when guy uncontrollably yawns
>
>wrong move
>
>gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??
>guy: yeah, tired from work...
>gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and sleep lah
>guy: ok, you have an early nite too..
>guy hangs up the phone.
>5 min later, phone rings
>awaken by the phone rings,
>guy: hello?
>gal: .............
>guy: who's this?
>gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is it?
>guy (confused): huh? what?
>gal: ............
>guy: why? what happened?
>gal: you find me very bothersome is it?
>guy: bothersome? why you said this??
>gal: .............
>guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you dun say it out?
>gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and went off to sleep...
>guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to sleep...
>gal: you already said want to slee p already, what else u want me to say?
>guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what for tell me to go
>sleep, and feeling unhappy in the end?
>gal: since when i'm unhappy?
>guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the next time, will that
>do?
>gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me willingly, and not
>because afraid that i will be unhappy...
>
>in the end, guy spend another ?comforting gal, actual sleep time is
>11.40pm, plus the earlier argument, he did not have a good sleep. what
>worse is the gal may argue with the same thing again the next day.
>
>right move

>
>gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?
>guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired from work. but you
>have not finished talking, carry on, i will be listening.
>gal (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go and sleep then
>(still sounding out)
>never fall into the trap and hang up the phone
>guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more tiring. how abt i
>give u a call tomorrow morning. let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the
>reason, and offer make up measure)
>gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.
>gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a bit more than this
>
>guy: so what time you are going to sleep?
>gal: not sure, probably a bit later.
>guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will be heart pain one
>hor...
>gal (feeling loved): ok lah...
>guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting also must remember
>to say this impt words, else all effort wasted)
>gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till can float liao)
>guy: ehmm...
>gal hang up the phone
>
>in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and probably a morning call
>from gal the next day...
>
>conclusion 1:
>girls want feelings of caring. most of the time, girls' logic cannot
>be figured out with a reasoning mind.
>
>conclusion 2:
>say a few more touching words, concerning lines, will save you more than
>½hr of precious time
>
>conclusion 3:
>when encounter the above situation, must always let the gal hang up the
>phone first. else it will be disastrous...
>
>conclusion 4:
>if your girlfriend isn't like the one in this example, then congrats to
>you mannn!
>treasure her!
>but if she does, dont accuse her of being unreasonable. they are just
>being what
>they are!

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