The Real Smell of Rain Drops

FinDinG thE RiGht Man~

How do we define whether we've found the right man? I guess everybody's level of definition is different.. but sometimes its quite contradicting, cos some ppl will feel tat if the person is bad, he is bad.. "jiang shan yi gai, ben xin nan yi", then wat abt someone who's gd in the first pl? that doesn't guarranty that he will be gd always.. so does it mean that its really up to our own fate?

cos maybe u tot u've marry a really gd man, but he turn out to be a jerk? or due to some circumstances he started gambling and drinking in an excuse of reliving stress and have gotten from bad to worse.. or vice versa?

i've always thought marrying a rich man doesn't mean u'll be rich ur whole life.. cos if u r fated to have poor life, then maybe one day he'll get bankrupt.. and if u r fated to enjoy gd life for the rest of ur life, even if u marry a poor man, maybe u'll struck lottery or maybe do really well in business and earns lots of money..

life is so full of uncertainties and surprises.. but we must also do our part in order for the surprises and happiness to come.. sitting there and doing nothing wouldn't bring us to anywhere, thats wat i think...

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