MisUnderStandinGs...
just in case any of u misunderstand any of my post, im not targetting at any particular person in my life or any particular situation that happen to me, im just talking abt it in general, in my point of view, when i see certain things gng on...
its true that human beings tends to misunderstand each other because of the different mentality and different mindset. for eg. talk abt myself, ppl who knows me knows that i talk loudly and sometimes without processing in my brain if i shld day something. but ppl who dunno might get offended because they will think that y do i need to raise my voice talking to them. - misunderstanding here, they tot im angry or not happy with them. infact, NO, my mood is perfectly fine, just my voice that i can't control sometimes.
most of the misunderstandings are caused by lack of communications and more of assumptions. its not right to assume this and assume that, because that is only wat u think it is.. its not the truth.. so wat u needa do is to is to speak up, ask and clear the misunderstanding. when u realise its all a misunderstanding, u will know how stupid u r to hav think that way.
at certain situation.. its abit too late to clear the misunderstanding, cos u've already 造成伤害 .. there's nothing u can do already.. just like if u've stab someone with a knife, and u realise that its not the person's fault, its just too late.. the wound is bleeding already.. so dun make unnecessary assumptions ya~ plus dun repeat ur mistakes again and again..
some ppl can clear misunderstandings and move on.. some ppl just don't and then they'll just ignore each other and move on with their own life, nv to cross path again.. - then as time passes, they will think back, they oso dunno wat happen tat lead both of them become wat they r now.. and when they think back, they will think y they quarrel/watever for that particular small matter for no reason (sometimes), and when they finally realise that wat they've done are not right, its too late to go back to how close they are last time already.
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