OtheR...
than being lazy.. recently i had been quite reluctant to blog.. tho i had mention b4 i hav my freedom to blog watever thing i like.. but it always seems to be a tool for ppl to bombard me with questions and judgement.. wat i do out there doesn't need to be answerable to anyone..
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is like we were talking abt attending wedding dinner, the couple celebrate their wedding by treating their friends and relative dinner. but now it had seems that ppl attending the wedding dinner are actually paying the food they eat instead of the wedding couple treating.. because the ang bao amt that we gif to the wedding couple actually is determine by where the dinner is held, if its held at high class hotel, then u have to gif more.. therefore ppl says receiving wedding invitation is as good as receiving red bomb (causing ur wallet to burn a big hole).. and then some ppl says wedding dinner is the time whereby the couple "earn" back the money they had spend for this wedding dinner..
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Some story to share:
This lady was trying to calm down a child who was crying really hard. they were having tennis lessons at the courts, but the lady had accidentally left the child there after the lesson ended, and when she finally realised it and went over to fetch the child, the child was crying badly cos he was really scared. and when the mom came and saw wat had happen, instead of scolding the lady or stopping the child from attending the tennis in future, the mother actually calm the kid by saying everything is ok now, and that the lady did not meant to left him there, and the lady is oso very upset and scared that she had lost the kid earlier on and ask the kid to gif the lady a kiss on the cheek and comfort her. and the kid tip-toe and gave that lady (kneeling on the floor) a kiss and said "dun be scared, everything is ok now"
this shld be the right kinda education a kid shld get.. but right now parents are over protective over their kids till they always lose control in front of the kids, this actually contribute to the kid's well-being in future. when someone makes a mistake (unintentionally), do u think the person will feel gd making the mistake? and yet ppl always make the person feel even worse by scolding the person.. u think ppl purposely make the mistake one meh? instead of comforting the person who is feeling really bad le, u added on the misery by reprimanding the person..
LitTLe RaiN DroP
